People with power rarely apologize when they abuse their power. This has nothing to do with men, per se.
As usual, Valenti has taken an important issue, and framed it as a "women versus men" issue. She does this to drum up hatred and division, and thereby increase her following.
Abuse of women by men is a real phenomenon - but not because men are any different from women. It is because men are more often the ones with power. That is the problem.
Valenti wants us all to think that men are inherently evil. That is how she creates a mob mentality: let's round up all those men and burn them at the stake, the way they did to all us red-haired women back in Salem! Except that that was in the name of religion, and both men and women have been victims of that, through multiple Inquisitions.
Women are not fairly treated in our society, in terms of opportunities. That is the problem.
Another problem is that people in power rarely admit their transgressions. But that has nothing - NOTHING - to do with "men versus women".
Sorry Jessica - your hate argument is misplaced.