A horrible experience. But it is important to remember, that horrible experiences are pretty universal. I have had my share — as a man. I was metaphorically raped by having my daughter taken from me, and by having my company (and therefore my financial security) stolen from me. The world rapes most people in myriad ways. We each must fight back — not turn inward or cower. For some of us, fighting back is innate, for others, it takes experience. You must fight back. Never feel like a victim; feel transgressed, and vow to not let it happen again, to be smart, to learn and go forward, to make the best of the future that remains.